Solace
I come to you.
A weekend together to identify and target the specific neural memories linking riding to fear and sabotage, to ignite the inner bravery you already have.
This is not therapy. This is not horse training.
This is neuroscience working the way your brain actually works, because being nervous is a stored memory.
It’s not a flaw in you. I’ll help you stop letting one bad ride control every ride after it.
Hi, I’m Tammy, and after working through my own mental mess of depression, anxiety, stress and pain, I’ve figured out that everyone sabotages themself unknowingly. I’m here to let you know:
You are not broken, and it’s not a willpower problem.
Nothing worked for you because everything in your brain was aimed at the wrong target. Let’s rediscover the brave you and enjoy the ride!
The fear you carry is not a character flaw; it’s a specific, identifiable memory that your brain created and linked to horse riding that is now sabotaging your enjoyment, bravery and performance. Your brain has been faithfully honoring that link ever since, completely below your conscious awareness. Willpower, lessons or self-improvement are a lot of work and changing tack costs a ton of money! Those tools don’t operate at the level where the memory lives.
I want to assure you that you have not been failing. You have been using the right effort in the wrong direction. And the moment the light turns on and you have that first “AHA” moment, everything changes. We use the Neuro Reset method to unlink and relink these neurological pathways without fear and force.
This is a curated, effortless process designed for women ready to let go of the negative experiences they carry and enjoy riding again!
The Neuro Reset Method
Intelligent transformation for the high-achieving woman. Unlinking the experiences of the past through memory reconsolidation.
Your brain has been running a pattern you never chose.
You’ve never lacked bravery. You’ve tried, forced, pressured, criticized and punished yourself. You’ve had enough of that in your past.
Let’s try an easier solution.
Rewiring at the Source.
We use the Neuro Reset to unlink and relink the wiring in the brain. We target the level where the memory lives to create effortless change.
Memories Thoughts Feelings Actions Results
“She went from white-knuckling through every stressful ride to not thinking about all the bad things that could happen. Not managing it. Not thinking about it.”
Finally free.
Not managed.
Free.
Right effort. Right direction.
Your own brain delivers the solution.
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Free guide
Brave Riding Mastery
EFT tapping, breath release, and guided visualization, for riders who are tired of forcing themselves to be brave.
- Why “ride through it” doesn’t work
- The loop keeping you stuck, and how to break it
- The Pre-Ride Rewire Protocol, step by step
- A 5-minute ritual to run before every ride
Curated Services
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Vision Implementation
6 months of self-curated coaching to match exactly what you need for ease and flow. Effortlessly rewire brain connections below the level of conscious awareness, ending the exhausting battle of pressure and force, and be drawn by vision instead.
Bespoke Wellness Path
A 12-month curated experience designed for high-achieving women, providing a lifestyle plan that requires no pressure, no force. Gaining that focused competitive edge!
Including: a 1:1 weekend retreat, Vision Implementation, and on-demand high-level coaching for elevated recalibration.
The other side of it
What getting back looks like.
Not managed. Cleared, and back out there.
Reviews
Riders, in their own words.
I went from being anxious 90% of the time to 1% and I handle it quickly so it doesn't ruin my sleep or my next interaction with my horse or my family!
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Update the Pattern of Your Mind
Everything you’ve tried hasn’t worked: not the new tack, the body work, the lessons, the perfect weather, the new farrier… Here’s why: an emotion fired off at the same time as the feeling of riding your horse. You didn’t realize they wired together. Now the brain fires that feeling when you’re stressed or uncomfortable. The pattern is established and runs on its own like a bunch of brumbies. It IS something you can update to make your journey easier and more fun. Your brain will be optimized for new potential.
I want a Neuro Reset (opens Tammy’s calendar in a new tab)You have spent years believing the pattern is your fault. You feel responsible for your horse, your lack of discipline, and that something is fundamentally wrong with you. That belief is the heaviest thing you carry, and it is completely wrong. The moment you land here, that weight begins to lift.
This is not therapy. This is not horse training. This is neuroscience working the way your brain actually works.